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Lesotho - Goodbye & Hello Again

Goodbye dear Dad


Lou 90 years


I found out from my mother, Marta, that in the middle of February hospice care had been arranged for my dad, Lou. During weekly calls home since my arrival in Lesotho in June 2014 I was aware of Lou's failing stamina & health, he had after all reached his 90's.  He often said to me that he wanted to be home to greet me once I completed Peace Corps service in August 2016, and he was so close to doing so. I notified the Peace Corps Country Director within the week to arrange for an emergency leave to go visit Lou; PC was great and as quickly as was possible they received approval from PC Washington DC and arranged my flights. PC has a 2-week emergency leave policy for this type of situation.











Once back in California I was able to spend all day, every day with Marta & Lou. Though Lou slept a lot, we were able to talk quite a bit during the first week. He really enjoyed learning about my work in Lesotho and with Sr. Juliana at the St. Camillus Centre. He had so many questions about the kids, the farm, and life in Lesotho from seeing the slideshow of photos I had brought. He seemed to present in the moment, content, relaxed, not worried - though always a little wistful in knowing why I was there and what the coming days would bring. By the second week his condition deteriorated and he began that slow slide into another world. Sometimes he would verbalize his thoughts but mostly he just seemed to drift. Marta said she was so appreciative of our time together and I knew that my visit was as much about being with her as being with Lou. We had wonderful care by the staff of Merrill Gardens, the senior residence where my folks live, and by the nurses of Kaiser Permanente's Hospice program. The treated Lou lovingly & eased his last journey.  Lou passed away the evening of March 4 with Marta, Sande (sister), and Christine (friend) there to care for him.  I believe he was completely at peace.



Lou 91 years
Lou 91 years & Marta 87 years


My visits with my family was my priority so I did not venture out much. Mike & Deanna once again opened their home & hearts to me - I'll forever appreciate their kindness. Dear pals came by to visit which helped make the days & nights go a bit easier.

 


Home again to Lesotho

Flying into Lesotho brought mixed impressions… the beautiful, now green mountains & hills framed by that fabulous blue blue Lesotho sky were so comforting & welcoming but the vast stretches of barren maize fields seemed so unreal & out of place. Where there should have been corn stalks shoulder high competing to fill out each fertile field there were sparse patches of stalks & some fields were not even plowed as if there was not even the will to try planting.




The St. Camillus Centre & Farm appeared to be an oasis in this desert of barren fields. The new borehole was supplying ample water to the irrigation that reached all the vegetable plots. Greens, cabbage, green peppers, and even flowers were thriving in the rich Lesotho soil.  Making progress on establishing a successful sales approach was slow; Mme Maletuka was still carting green peppers into town on her head. However, she was making progress building relationships with the local vendors that would hopefully result in greater sales during future harvests.






The best news all month was that the new Toyota truck was delivered in late March by the Maseru sales manager. Sr. Juliana was thrilled to see a beautiful new truck, the latest model even, with all the new electronic devices included - electric windows!! The kids were now riding in style to and from school.



Lesotho - Accident & Transitions Jan-Apr 2015

I fell… and then a long journey getting back up

I was just taking a casual walk down a paved road in Lesotho and then without warning I  missed my step on the uneven curb… I fell hard and landed on my right side breaking 2 pelvic bones & a couple ribs!

Kind folks rushed to help - I was in agony - but they lifted me off the road to a safe place & then drove me to a bus station where I had to catch a public taxi van home. At first I just thought I had pulled groin muscles but after a night of intense pain & inability to move I realized that I really needed some help & contacted Peace Corps. Peace Corps immediately sent a driver to to pick me up & transport me to the famous Willie's hospital in Maseru for x-rays & a night's stay. Due to the injuries we all realized there was no going home so I was transported by ambulance to a hospital an hour away in Bloemfontein, Republic of South Africa (RSA). I had a thorough evaluation by a very competent trauma specialist in the Emergency Department; more x-rays & a CT scan & then admitted.

I spent 2 full weeks in the acute care hospital; the orthopedics ward in a 5-bed room with other "old" ladies coming & going after hip & knee replacements. I was the gimp who was pretty much confined to bed while they had short stays & went on home. Since I could not stay in the acute facility indefinitely nor return home to Lesotho on bed rest & crutches I was transferred to a very pleasant rehab hospital - private room even! I recuperated there on bed-rest for just over 3 weeks. I had the most wonderful Physical Therapist - Ilse, and a couple great rehab doctors. Ilse was there just about everyday to cheer me up and try any and all therapies to keep my strength up & help heal the muscle tears. She brought in South African wine - Pinotage, that was terrific and samples of Biltong, a South African specialty of dried game meat (we would call it jerky in the US but this is a gourmet version very popular in RSA). Through our friendship we shared a lot about health care practices in our two countries. When I felt able to withstand a long flight, Peace Corps sent me back home to Walnut Creek to finish recuperating.

Rehab Hospital Staff Singing Morning Prayers
Peace Corps provided great care and a lot of support though we had one serious issue. The immigration officer at the Johannesburg International Airport cited me for overstaying my visa 29 days.  RSA immigration / border crossing laws had been changed in mid-2014 to stipulate that an alien overstaying his/her RSA visa would be subject to severe penalties. An overstay of 29 days or under would prevent a return for one year; an overstay of 30 days or more would result in a five year banishment.  I would now not be able to return to Lesotho for one year unless I could obtain a waiver!

Access to RSA is required for Lesotho Peace Corps Volunteers as RSA is the only available destination for medical or political evacuation!  I spent the next several months trying to work with Peace Corps and RSA to have a waiver for my overstay approved. It was a challenging situation being separated from work in Mohale's Hoek but I stayed in close contact with Rethabile & Sister Juliana at the St. Camillus Centre.

In the meantime... I would spend five weeks in my home town, staying with friends Mike and Deanna in their lovely Lafayette home and getting physical therapy at Kaiser Permanente while finishing up my recovery (my Peace Corps medical leave was extended until mid-March).  I had a wonderful time visiting my mother and father, Marta & Lou. And, so many of my fabulous friends (many from out of town) made such gracious efforts to keep me company & well entertained; dinners, walks, plays, wineries, movies. Mike & Deanna, Kate & Adam, Maureen, Sergio, Laura, Janet, Mary-Anna, Paula & Richard, Suzanne, Jim, Christine, Carole & Barry, David, Serafina & Charles, and Kaiser Permanente buddies!! Who did I miss?

During that time I wrote to RSA Home Affairs weekly but there was never a response; Home Affairs seemed like a black hole. After lots of back & forth with Peace Corps Lesotho & Washington DC, all agreed I would go to Washington D.C. on an administrative leave of 45 days where I would be able meet with the Lesotho Desk Officer & Africa Director in person to work through options. I left for Washington D.C. with high hopes of  resolving the visa situation - little did I know I would have 6 long & tumultuous weeks ahead.

Kate & Stephanie
I arrived in Washington D.C. in early spring and left just before the first days of summer. It was wonderful to see the seasonal changes - particularly the transition from one spring blossom to another… daffodils, tulips, tulip trees, cherry trees, dogwood - something new each week. The Cherry Blossom Festival and all the cherry trees in bloom in DC was spectacular. Every weekend there was an event on the Mall or somewhere in the Capitol. Best buddy Kate came all the way to DC to spend a long weekend with me! JOY!! We walked all over - visited the White House Rose Garden, saw comedy at the Kennedy Performing Arts Center, enjoyed some great meals, wandered the DC neighborhoods, and moved from hotel to hotel at PC expense :-). 




The flip side though was so much angst & grief dealing with the RSA visa issue. The Peace Corps Washington D.C. staff & leadership were very supportive & kind. The Africa Region Director & the Operations Director offered all their support & made what attempts they could to connect with RSA Home Affairs. The Desk Officer tried to keep my spirits up & even took me to see a play with her. But the reality was absolutely no progress making inroads with RSA Home Affairs; my only options were to either leave the Peace Corps or transfer to another post.

I never had second thoughts - I was not going to terminate Peace Corps service!! Though I was heartbroken that I could not return to Lesotho I committed to making the best of the situation & was certain I would make whatever adjustments were needed to continue on. With lots of assistance from the Directors & the Desk Officer, I decided to interview for 2 possible African countries, The Gambia & Ghana - both had great reputations. Fortunately both sites accepted me and I chose The Gambia - knowing so very little about either one except that they are West African nations and oh so hot and humid. It was extremely difficult to have to inform Sister Juliana & Rethabile at my lovely site in Mohale's Hoek, Lesotho that I would not be able to return. I was so sad & actually depressed that I would not be able to see them & all the wonderful St. Camillus kids again. Without access to RSA it seemed unlikely that I would ever have a chance to return, even for a visit.

So, The Gambia! I had very little clothes with me suitable for the tropics so I spent a little effort shopping for light clothes. During my last days in DC I was able to connect with Tracy, my dear Lucy friend, & ask for help to pack what I wanted to keep & to help give-away clothes & items I would not need.  She enlisted PCV Eloise to help with the effort & they were able to enjoy a nice weekend at my site in Mohale's Hoek.  

All that effort to get ready for Lesotho - shopping & preparing...the warm clothes, the down sleeping bag, jacket, & vests; the gloves, mufflers, thermal underwear, & wool socks - now no longer needed.


My long journey getting back up continued on... 

Photos: Friends & family in the Bay Area...


Marta & Lou











Stephanie & Kate


Kate, Stephanie, Adam


Deanna, Paula, Stephanie, Mike, Richard - Sonoma 


Maureen, Stephanie


Deanna, Mike, Mary-Anna, Stephanie


Sergio & Sparky






David & Stephanie


Sparky, Sergio, Stephanie, Laura


Stephanie & Kate


Stephanie, Deanna, Kate, Christine, Sergio
Pamm & Eddy - Richmond KP Office